The other morning, just a few days before the presidential election, I sat chatting and eating brunch with a group of friends in a cozy living room. As we discussed the possible impending results (none of us really believing, in that moment, that we would ever hear the words “President Trump“) a sub-plot made its way into the conversation: as we ate homemade muffins and scrambled eggs, a rustling sound periodically emanated from the chimney of a nearby wood stove. After a round of “what’s that??” the homeowners told us the unfortunate story of the trapped bird.
The wife, a new mother, no-doubt stewing in a brew of maternal instincts, was beside herself. “I just want it to die or go free. I can’t stand the suffering!!” she declared, hands over her face.
The husband, a competent carpenter, explained that due to the way the chimney was constructed, there was no way to reach the bird. He shifted in his chair and shrugged his shoulders regretfully.
“Can I try? Please?” one guest implored. “I’m pretty sure I can get it,” she said, noting her small hands and bird-loving spirit.
I confessed aloud to having emotionally removed myself from the bird after deciding its fate was sealed. I ate my muffin and offered sympathetic facial expressions to my more compassionate friends.
Together, several of them poked and prodded and twisted, finally adjusting the flue just right, allowing the small-handed, bird-loving friend to reach up towards the now frantically flapping wings. Black soot puffed out of the chimney and into the sunny air.
“I touched it!” she said.
A series of pauses, reaches, and flapping-wings ensued. After several failed attempts, we all joined in a discussion comparing the potential harm (both physical and psychological) that could befall the bird during the rescue effort, and the harm of letting it die slowly but without a massive predator-induced adrenaline rush.
I sipped my coffee and voted to let it be. Let it be. Let it be. You know the rest of the words. The rescue attempt made my heart beat too hard.
Another friend stepped up and added his animal-loving spirit and able hands to the mix: more tries, more flapping, more soot.
And then, finally…”I got it!”
“What?!” and “Really???” and “Oh my gosh!!!”
Someone jumped up to open the door. Cradling the bird in his hands, our friend stepped outside onto the second-floor porch and tossed it into the autumn sky. It soared. We cheered.
And that’s what hope and persistence can accomplish.
Even when things seem impossible.
Like when you’re a progressive in Indiana in November of 2016.
Beautifully written, Julia – thank you!
Beautiful! A hope-giving anecdote for less-than-hopeful times.
Very good analogy. I enjoyed reading this. I need some encouragement. My 77th birthday was on November 10 and it hurt to have it damaged by the election of a mentally ill bully.
Keep writing, Julia. We need reminders like these to work together and never, ever give up.
Thanks, Julia. I needed to hear that too. It’s tough living in a state where the Republican candidate is practically guaranteed a win. You were a great exception to this of course. Leah and I are trying to help the bird population around here. It’s a little bit tough to watch a Raptor pick off birds at the feeders but that is nature. Finally, I had the need to use the services of a Republican the other day and was both surprised and pleased to see that he’s a pretty nice guy, almost likeable even. Who knew?
Yes, I agree. There are plenty of likeable Republicans out there. Clearly, I have some disagreements with many of those likeable people regarding how we ought to live together in this nation. The disrespectful rhetoric we’ve heard from Trump about racial minorities, women, immigrants, and religious minorities has been deeply troubling. It’s bruised my American pluralistic sensibilities. My only consolation has been that more than half of the voters who voted did NOT vote for Trump. The majority must remained engaged. So, hang in there, Ray! 🙂
… and persistence is equally important the day of and the day after. Thank you, JuliaKing Dajarah